Many people whose children have Sensory Processing Disorder may find that they struggle when it comes to hair washing . The anticipation of water coming can be a threat to the nervous system, with the feel of water being uncomfortable or even painful when it hits the skin. It may be the temperature of the water. Children who over-register tactile input may also over-register temperature, they may feel things in extremes – so something cool could be experienced as bitterly cold; and something warm as scorching hot.
It important to consider that there are a lot of factors as to why a child does not like hair washing , and important to think about them individually. One of the ways to help a child is to slowly break it down into small steps. Explain what is happening and slowly build up to what you wish to achieve. It may be that they refuse even to go into the bathroom, for instance, so just start by letting them go in and then leave again straight away. Then build up to getting them to stay in there a little while: Until slowly you can eliminate a fear of the room. If they still are screaming just going in the room then it may well be worth considering changing the colour, feel, or flooring of the room. It may be you just need a new air freshener or a new rug. Try adding things that appeal to them – maybe with the use of bathroom tile stickers of say dinosaurs. Make it fun – provide plenty of bathroom toys.
The most important thing is to let them guide you. Try to establish what is upsetting them, rather than just trying to force them to do something that you feel they ought to do. Believe me I have a teenager with Aspergers – no-one died from not washing for a little while. Let them decide on the temperature of the water for example.
We were thrilled to try the JOHNSON’S CHALLENGE, with New JOHNSON’S Baby Easy-Rinse Foaming Shampoo, because it really did fit with where we are with our little Sensory Seeker. He is about to start school and needs a hand with his independence and more of an understanding about personal hygiene.
Challenge 1 DIY Fun Factor: this gave us the option of letting him wash his hair – so he had full control. I was really pleased to say that he managed the pump action soap (with a little difficulty at first), largely unaided. This is good for a few reasons – them being that he is hypermobile in his hands and all manner of other terms the occupational therapist said to me and forgot – but basically he needs to do certain things to strengthen them. That he didn’t get too much shampoo, as a seeker I expected him to just keep pumping it out, but he never, he was happy with the right amount and happily lathered it into his hair. I was also supplied with a frog mirror and jug for him to be able to see what he was doing whilst controlling where the water was going. We have also found that a mirror has been a great help in brushing his teeth. If he can see what is happening he is a lot less distressed. I believe it is because it makes things more predictable.
Challenge 2 Funky Foam Fun: This was about seeing what funky foam hairstyles you could make – this happened rather quickly as he is a sensory seeker and so was very keen to start tipping the water over his head again.
Challenge 3 Rinse Ease:
100% of the mums who had already tested the shampoo agreed that it was easy to rinse off.
Yes I can agree there too – his hair is curly (although quiet short at the moment) and can be really difficult to get the bubbles out (one of the things I feel adds to his distress), but these bubbles came out with ease when he washed it himself. There was no need for me to help with extra rinsing.
94% also agreed that it made shampooing delightful.
It was indeed a delight to see him so happy to wash his own hair. It was such a proud milestone for me and made me feel very proud.
And 70% agreed that the shampoo kept the fun going all through bath time.
To be honest we have quiet fun bath times, so although it was nice to see him so happy to wash his hair it wasn’t the reason that the whole bath time was fun.
I received a free bottle of JOHNSON’S Baby Easy-Rinse Foaming Shampoo, a frog mirror, and jug. I have not been compensated in any other way. All opinions are completely honest and my own.
I’ll give this a try, thanks!
Lovely review! Great idea for independence too 🙂
How wonderful to see your little one develop like that, with such sensitivity and understanding. I’ll be supporting this shampoo just because of this post from now on and thinking of him while getting my youngest to do his own hair too now!
Great review.
Great skills and leaps forward he is making x
Foam mohicans and beards are always a hit in our house, definitely be looking out for this in the shops!
this looks fab, my little asd girl hates having her hair washed still! Always looking for new things to try
What a great idea. I’m now feeling really guilty because I haven’t done anything like this with either of my two and hair washing is an absolute nightmare every time. I need to make some changes I think.
this looks fantastic! i struggle with Joshua’s hair being quite thick, i may have to try this
Great review. Looks like he enjoyed using all the things that came with the shampoo x
What a lovely review and great pictures! I think this I’d a bone of contention for a lot of parents so will be very helpful to many, I’m sure 🙂
Great review, looks like he had fun with it.
This sounds like a really great shampoo xx
What a great review – and from such an important perspective too. Thank you so much for linking to PoCoLo x
Thank you for sharing, I think I will try the mirror and the jug. We love the water, its the getting in the face and eyes which causes the distress.
He did amazingly well with this challenge, I’m glad he enjoyed taking part.
Thanks for linking up with Small Steps Amazing Achievements :0)
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Great review! I loved the explanation about helping them and breaking it into little steps. So true for so many things.
Bath time isn’t a problem for us (well, at least not for me. It’s daddy’s job), but I will but that frog mirror for sure. He is going to go wild for it 🙂
My daughter, 3.5 yr old has SID and is a seeker. My son, 1yr old appears to be following her footsteps, although he appears to be hyper sensitive, rather than a seeker. (He does have oral seeking behaviors though!) They both LOVE bathtime.. Not sure if anyone else here has had the concern I did though- they drink the soapy water.. put the foam on skin and lick it off, suck on the washcloth, you name it- it’s in the mouth! (Even the lotion I put on them after getting out of the tub). My daughter’s OT recommended a product line that makes organic to food grade standard products for hair, body, skin, and household.. It is safe to eat, including for babies and toddlers with sensory seeking behaviors!! I thought I would share it with you all… not sure if there is a place for it, but it has brought me piece of mind..
http://www.miessence.com/consciousliving
Thank for all the fun posts!
Thank you for sharing as I have never heard of the edible stuff but that makes such a lot of sense to use.
It’s not a chore of being forced of washing hair and getting shampoo in the eyes anymore. It’s about making crazy, funky foam hair styles in front of a froggy mirror. I love it!